OBJECTIFICATION, DEGRADATION, HUMILIATION
You crave to be physically and/or psychologically degraded or humiliated. Why not both?
Your ability, credibility, affect, and identity are at the mercy of … whatever it is I feel, in that moment.
You desire to be treated as my personal object, present to assist in making my life easier. You are my… tool, vacuum cleaner, ladder, side table, chair, carpet. The possibilities are endless.
You feel complete helplessness as my utility… and keep coming back for more.